Home Based Business

I have chatted with various people over the years and I noticed patterns in terms of similar obstacles to overcome in developing a residual income in a home based business. Previously, a group of us had connected on line at a forum called Our Network Home. It has not existed for a few years now and too bad as it was a great place to invest a few minutes each day, learn and grow, read some posts and comment back. However, for some of us that have been around the forum for a while, we had a love/dislike relationship with it as some would question the direction the forum was taking and why do we need all this personal growth stuff. For example, at times I would grow impatient and I just wanted my coach to cut to the chase and tell me how to build a home based business.

Why would anybody dislike coming to a forum and reading material that helped us ask ourselves questions about leadership, relationships, partnerships etc? The product testimonies were great and so were the celebrations of success of building a residual income in a home based business. Sometimes we shared bad news like in our families. What was it that pushed those buttons during those periods?

For years I read numerous self-help materials. I thought I understood the theory. However, I truly didn?t think I needed it. I knew better. In fact I can remember many times thinking I could have delivered the material more effectively myself. I had a lot to learn back then and still do. Everyday is a journey, not a destination in building my home based business.

I didn?t want to hear about all the personal growth I needed to do as I was just focused on getting the job done of creating a residual income in a home based business. I believe everybody can relate. Just show me how and get out of my way. You know what though, I know many people in this world that have accumulated great wealth but the people that know them don?t respect them. I know several people like that in this very industry. I once knew a man that made 20K every month and those that got to know him really didn?t even like to be around him and certainly had no respect for him. That was at the beginning of my career and it confused me as to what was really important and why for building a home based business. He had what I wanted, success, but in reality he was quite poor.

A team needs everybody, new and old, successful and not yet successful. It doesn?t matter that I or others didn?t have a $10,000 a month residual income in a home based business. Everyone is inter-dependent upon each other. Everybody must learn this important lesson and will one way or the other. We ALL need each other!

Leaders can be well remunerated in ABC Company, however, who still want to become leaders. This is where our self-image can hit a wall and you know it. Some folks cannot yet see themselves as that leader on stage. This takes time for some people. Others want it so bad and are willing to work for it. But, are you willing to invest the time and dedication to be one?

Real leaders, those that are happy and successful at creating a healthy residual income in their home based business, have earned many people?s respect. That?s the Circle of Influence deal we are all working on. It really hurts to work through all those names and get rejected doesn?t it? Let?s ask ourselves a question shall we? How long does it take us to give our own respect to someone? 1 hour, 3 hours, 10? What is it that makes us respect another person? Is it really just a question of how much they earn?

Real leadership is given, never taken and one achieves it through failing often enough to learn the lessons. Real leadership, like respect, is earned. Those that have obtained a certain measure of a residual income are not always one to be admired or respected. So what is the answer to all of this?

Habits!!! Success habits come hard – don?t they? How many leads do we have to call before it becomes second nature and we are good at? How many friends and family have to turn us down until our resolve is so strong that we can exclaim Next! How many times do we have to do that self-examination of our beliefs before we change those that are not working? How long does it take us to really learn that it doesn?t hurt us to let another help us be better?

Successful habits can build a long term sustainable residual income and a solid home based business.

When we do the things that we don?t feel like doing, such as writing an article tonight or are afraid of doing and just do them anyhow we develop our character and leadership abilities. We invest time in people as we are in the people business, if we truly want a successful home based business. Mediocre people don?t. Leaders do. Leaders fail a whole lot on their path to earning respect and becoming successful.

True leaders that deserve respect have failed so much that they have learned about humility. They have learned how to be inter-dependent on others at helping each other in their respective home based business. Ever met an arrogant leader? In reality no, because real leaders are not arrogant. They have learned how to be servants, one day at a time, by habit.

During my journey for the past 10 years in this home based business industry, I have met many leaders. One man that stands out is Tom Prendergast – CEO – Veretekk. He doesn’t take the easy road, but takes the path that is the right way to go, no matter how hard. What Tom shared several months ago, opened up my mind to why so many MLM people had failed because they followed a plan of duplication.

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